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Am I a Functioning Alcoholic? When to Know You Need Help for Drinking

The myth about the functioning alcoholic and how to get treatment and stop drinking from friends at Country Road recovery in OK.

When many alcoholics are at their worst, they don’t realize it. They are drinking heavily and it is impacting their life without their knowledge. They might be underperforming at work, there could be tensions with loved ones and even physical signs are showing – but the alcoholic doesn’t know.

Many consider themselves to be “functioning” alcoholics. They see they can hold down their job, attend their kids’ sporting events or make enough money to fund their addiction.

But this is rarely the case. They might be OK now, but soon they will fall victim to their addiction. It could be at night when they drink alone or it could be in weeks. They could start missing those important events and missing work. They might start to experience financial trouble. They might even find themselves in trouble with the law.

That is when they hit rock bottom and need help for their drinking.

How Many Are Alcoholics?

An estimated 30 million people struggle with an alcohol use disorder in the U.S. So, alcoholism is far more common than many people realize, impacting about 10% of the total population. According to a federal survey, about 825,000 reported heavy alcohol use in the past month.

So don’t feel you have to start your road to sobriety alone!

Hitting Rock Bottom

Make no mistake, every alcoholic hits “rock bottom.” They have to hit a point where their life feels so out of control that they know they need help. It’s only possible to start a true life of sobriety once we hit our breaking point.

But everybody’s breaking point is different. For some, it is when a spouse or a partner threatens to leave because of our drinking. For others, it is when our children notice our habits. For others, it is when they are arrested for DUI or other crimes. Then some hit rock bottom when they lose their job because of their drinking.

Hitting rock bottom can be scary, but it’s a necessary step in getting help for drinking.

Treatment Options

Once you are ready for treatment and to break the cycle of your addiction to alcohol, there are many treatment options. One is using a 12-step program, such as Alcoholics Anonymous. These programs can help you understand better why you turned to drinking and give you a support system as you start to live a sober life.

There are also rehab options to help you stop drinking. Those include inpatient and outpatient programs. Inpatient clients live at the facility while they receive care, while outpatients leave at the end of the day and return home. Both sets receive counseling and therapy. It will address your drinking and any underlying causes. It will help you get started on the road to recovery and give you the tools to avoid stressors in the world.

Get Help Today

If you are ready to end your destructive cycle of addiction, reach out to our staff at Country Road recovery today. Our counselors can talk to you about your drinking and help you determine he best treatment option. You can live a clean, sober life and break the cycle!

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Jerimiah Caldwell

Chef

When I arrived at Country Road I was terrified. Full of guilt, shame, and resentment. In other words I had nothing of value left to offer those around me.

I was welcomed with open arms and I slowly began the healing process.

Now, as the Executive Chef I have been blessed with the opportunity to literally serve and feed people who are just like I was when I first got here! Now, I have plenty of love, and light, (and food) to share with those around me! For this, I will forever be grateful.

Angela Tucker

CADC and LPC Canidate

Angela Tucker, CADC and LPC Candidate, has over 10 years of sobriety and over 6 years experience serving high-needs populations including individuals experiencing homelessness, veterans, those with severe mental illness, incarcerated and justice-involved individuals, and people in addiction recovery. She integrates clinical expertise, compassion, and lived experience in her practice.

April Jones

Business Office Manager

April Jones has been an important member of the Country Roads team since 2023. She first joined as a Direct Care Staff, quickly advanced to Direct Care Staff Supervisor, and now serves as our Business Office Manager. April’s passion for supporting those on their recovery journey is deeply personal after losing her daughter to addiction and walking her own path of recovery, she is committed to making a difference in the lives of others. In her free time, April enjoys crocheting and nurturing her growing collection of houseplants.

John Olson

CADC Candidate

John earned his bachelor’s degree in psychology and is currently working towards his master’s degree in Counseling Psychology at the University of Central Oklahoma. He has been working in the mental health field for several years. John has worked as a Therapeutic Assistant here at country Road Recovery, after graduating he moved on and became a Case Manager for children and adolescents. However, John believed he found his passion for working with people in addiction when he arrived at Country Road Recovery. His personal experience with family members that have struggled with addiction allows him to care for clients with compassion and understanding.

Thomas Fleming

Continuing Care Coordinator

Thomas Fleming has been working in the field of recovery for over eight years and brings a deep passion and personal commitment to his role as Continuing Care Coordinator at Country Roads. Being in recovery himself, Thomas understands firsthand the challenges and rewards of the recovery journey, and he is dedicated to supporting clients as they transition into the next phase of their lives. His personal experience allows him to connect with clients on a meaningful level, providing guidance, encouragement, and hope.

Born and raised in Oklahoma, Thomas has a strong connection to the community he works with. In his free time, he enjoys working on cars, a hobby that reflects his love of rebuilding and restoring — much like the work he does every day in helping others rebuild their lives.

Katelyn Bigbie

Registered Nurse

Katelyn Bigbie is a registered nurse at Country Road Recovery Center. With a wealth of experience spanning over a decade she obtained her nursing license in 2012 and has since honed her skills in a variety of healthcare settings.

Despite her diverse background, Katelyn has always felt a strong calling to the mental health field. Her unwavering commitment to supporting those struggling with addiction is rooted in her genuine passion for helping others on their journey to recovery. At Country Road Recovery Center, Katelyn combines her extensive nursing expertise with a deep understanding of mental health to provide the highest quality care for our patients.

Jessica Johnson

APRN-CNP

Jessica Johnson has been a part of our Country Road’s mental health treatment team since 2018. She has been a Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner for over 5 years, but has worked in the mental health and addiction treatment industry for over 20 years. Working in hospitals, residential treatments, outpatient clinics, detoxes, and jails has made Jessica adept and highly skilled in not only treating addiction, but working with people in a caring manner. Jessica graduated from Midwestern State University, Wichita Falls, Texas in 2016 with a Post Masters Degree.

Jessica has a great passion and love for treating both mental health and substance use disorders due to growing up in an unhealthy home environment where mental health and pain were treated with drugs and alcohol, leading to the death of her father by suicide. Jessica’s goal is to always help people reach their full potential, feel healthy, and functional with the least amount of medication possible.

Dr. Christopher Snyder

Medical Director

Dr. Christopher Snyder is Board Certified in Psychiatry and a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology. He grew up in Edmond, OK and earned a full scholarship to the University of Central Oklahoma while serving on the President’s Leadership Council and earning a Bachelor’s degree in Biology and Minor in Chemistry. Dr. Snyder attended Oklahoma State University Center for Health Sciences where he earned his Medical Degree.

He pursued residency and fellowship training at The University of Oklahoma College of Medicine in Tulsa, Oklahoma. During his residency training at OU, he was awarded “Outstanding Senior Resident in Clinical Care” and “Excellence in Teaching”. Dr Snyder has worked in various avenues in mental health and addiction.

He has served Adults and Adolescent patients in inpatient settings, intensive outpatient, has worked as Medical Director in Detox and Rehabilitation and Partial Hospitalization programs in the Oklahoma City metro area. Dr. Snyder engages in a holistic approach to patient care treating the mind, body and spirit. In his free time, he enjoys spending time with family, attending OKC Thunder basketball, working out and traveling.

Cameron Fletcher

Admissions Coordinator

Cameron is a member of the Admissions and Outreach team. He grew up in the foster care system before being adopted and moving to Oklahoma. As a young teen he fell into a lifestyle of drugs, alcohol, and legal trouble. After years of this cycle he finally reached out for help. In 2020 he arrived at Country Road Recovery Center, where he learned the value of a healthy community and skills which would help him in his journey though recovery.

He is passionate about helping others who are also struggling with addiction. He started working for Country Road in 2022 and since then has been able to do what he loves.

Amanda Brown

Director of Admissions

Amanda (McGee) Brown is the newest addition to the Admissions Team.

Amanda grew up and graduated from a small town in Oklahoma then joined the Army at the age of 22. Her struggle with mental health and behavioral issues started in her early teens, only to be exacerbated by alcohol and drug addiction.

In 2022, she reached her breaking point causing her to seek treatment at Country Road Recovery Center. While in treatment, with help from her counselors and peers, she learned how to stand in her truth and consistently show up for herself and others.

She now advocates that while recovery can often be difficult, this way of life has given her a strong sense of purpose with a fierce desire to help others overcome addiction.

Ashley Wooliver

Director of Outreach

Born and raised in Norman, OK, Ashley faced early struggles with addiction and mental health even as she pursued her loves for music and martial arts. In 2022, she reached a turning point and began her recovery at Country Roads Recovery Center—an experience that changed her life.

Shortly after treatment, Ashley found her passion for outreach in a nonprofit role, where she saw how connecting with others could create meaningful impact. Now, as Director of Outreach at Country Roads, she is dedicated to giving back to the place that saved her life.

Ashley is committed to expanding outreach efforts, building community partnerships, and helping others find hope in recovery—just as she did.

Michael Lacy

Executive Director

Michael Lacy is passionate about working with the substance abuse population because he was able to find recovery after seeking residential addiction treatment himself.

He feels residential treatment offers him a daily glimpse of the profound restorative power of recovery and he considers it a privilege to watch people find purpose, leave hopelessness behind, and become unfettered by the shackles of addiction at Country Road.

As Executive Director, he loves to be of service to our patients and staff, and is grateful to help those suffering from this terrible disease.

A Personalized Approach To Healing

Jerimiah Caldwell

Many people arrive here exhausted, overwhelmed, and unsure where to begin. We understand because many members of our team have walked their own recovery journey too.

We aren’t a call center, and we never treat you like a number.